Being in an intimate relationship,
it’s easy to be in conflict with your partner. Conflict is not what set people apart. Miscommunication, criticism, finger pointing are what makes conflict unbearable at home. Often, you may wonder how it got so bad and feel lost that you view your partner so negatively.
Drift is when the partners no longer understand each other.
Their relationship grew cold. Over time, they live parallel lives but do not connect as they used to. This is when people might start asking the question, “why do I still bother?” This is also when one or both spouses might start thinking that they could do better with someone else.
Here’s the good news.
There is hope, and marriages are salvageable even through the worst turns. It will take re-learning what it means to communicate properly. It will take building up fondness & respect, and building long term rituals.
I am informed in the Gottman marriage system.
Let me help you to assess the strengths/weaknesses of your marriage. We can build a comprehensive plan to re-spark the love you had.
Find security in your home
⧉ Rediscover romance and affection with one another
⧉ Feel the freedom to pursue your dreams within your relationship
One of the greatest measure of success is motivation. Clients that I’ve had truly wanted to turn their marriage around. My training through a Masters in Counselling has given me the knowledge to help. My ability to connect with my clients and work at their pace is what brings the results. If you are at the place where you are motivated to change, then the chance is we can do something about it.